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You can flip through the dictionary all day long, but you won’t find some of the words and terms I use in this blog. That’s because my language is a good blend of Los Angeles Lesbian Slang, San Francisco PC terminology, and a dash of Jersey Girl. I want to make sure we are speaking the same language so if you come across something that you can’t figure out with context clues, refer to this guide. If you can’t find it here, feel free to ask me.

LALS= Los Angeles Lesbian Slang (It may not derive from Los Angeles, but that is where I picked it up.)

SFPC= San Francisco Certified Politically Correct Terminology

J.EAST= New Jersey/East Coast Lingo

Chantelle=something I pulled out of my very supple ass

Androgyny- n. The condition of having both masculine and feminine characteristics, as in appearance, attitude, or behavior. (dictionary.com)

Bottom- n. An individual who only enjoys being penetrated whether it be mentally or sexually. (LALS) *also referred to as a “power bottom” or a “submissive”

Call Back-n. I’m referring to auditioning in the acting world. I auditioned for commercials, movies and episodics back in my Los Angeles days. A call back is when they like you at an audition and they call you and a few others they liked (often more than less) to re-audition you or show you to the client, producers, director and such to make a final decision.

Dominant, A- n. The aggressor in the relationship. They often enjoy penetrating whether it be mentally, physically or sexually. One can be a dominant in all aspects of the relationship, or dominant in certain aspects of the relationship and submissive in others. ie: He makes all the decisions in the relationship. But in the bedroom she runs the show.

Dominant Submissive Hybrid- n. An individual who enjoys both penetrating and being penetrated with the slight or significant preference of penetrating. (Chantelle) *also referred to as a “versatile top”

Power Bottom- n. An individual who only enjoys being penetrated whether it be mentally or sexually. (LALS) *also referred to as a “bottom” or a “submissive”

Power Top- n. An individual who only enjoys penetrating whether it be mentally or sexually. (LALS) * also referred to as a “top” or a “dominant”

Submissive, A- n. The one who allows themselves to be dominated, claimed or controlled in a relationship. They often enjoy being penetrated whether it be mentally, physically or sexually. One can be a submissive in all aspects of the relationship, or dominant in certain aspects of the relationship and submissive in others. ie: She makes all the decisions in the relationship. But in the bedroom he runs the show.

Submissive Dominant Hybrid- n. An individual who enjoys both penetrating and being penetrated with the slight or significant preference of being penetrated. (Chantelle) *also referred to as a “versatile bottom”

Top- n. n. An individual who only enjoys penetrating whether it be mentally or sexually. (LALS) * also referred to as a “power top” or a “dominant”

Versatile Bottom- n. An individual who enjoys both penetrating and being penetrated with the slight or significant preference of being penetrated. (LALS) *also referred to as a “submissive dominant hybrid”

Versatile Top- n. An individual who enjoys both penetrating and being penetrated with the slight or significant preference of penetrating. (LALS) *also referred to as a “dominant submissive hybrid”

Posted by Chantelle Posted in: For Gay Men, For Lesbians, For Straight Men, For Straight Women, Uncategorized 4 Comments » December 2007

Happy Holidays:)

I want to be a clever Christmas blogger but I fear I fall short. It’s 4:41am and I won’t be getting laid today. My love is in Sacramento visiting an estranged Aunt. Oh the odds. I have, however, just realized that CRASH PAD has a very hot new addition. “Wilder.”Mmmmm. I really need to get that subscription so I can make the pictures bigger…Anyway!

I often hear warnings about drunk driving around the Holidays. Since you have probably already heard those warnings and this is a relationship/sex oriented rant record, I feel it is my duty to warn you about something most people forget to mention.

Do Not Go Down While Driving!

It’s a mistake. You need to be alive to enjoy good lovin’. So please, park the car and THEN go for the gold.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU!

xo Chantelle

Posted by Chantelle Posted in: For Gay Men, For Lesbians, For Straight Men, For Straight Women No Comments » December 2007

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